Car Accidents and Insurance (looking for advice)
This is what our car looked like when I got home on Monday after work:

Christine was rear ended by a large SUV. She was stopped at a crosswalk, waiting for a pedestrian, and the SUV didn't stop and plowed into her. Luckily Christine only had minor injuries, but the car is a mess. Basically everything rear the rear tires is bent or broken somewhere, both inside and outside of the car. The trunk and rear passenger door don't open.
The SUV driver's insurance took the car to their body shop on Tuesday and we got a call from them today. They didn't declare the car a total loss and are going to fix it. However they did say that the frame is bent, so they need to cut out part of it and weld it back together. The amount of damage is about half of the car's value. I'm pretty nervous about such repairs both because I don't know if the repairs will give us as reliable and safe a car as we once owned, and because I'm sure it will diminish the value of the car.
Our car is a VW TDI and has unusually high value for it's age (it is a 6 year old car, but the blue book value is about 80% of it's original purchase price, on craigslist it is probably worth even more) due to being a diesel and a station wagon. We don't drive much, so the mileage is very low for a 6 year old car. It's a rare combination.
I'm hoping that someone out there has been in a similar situation (close to totalled car) and can give me a little advice. Here is what is running through my mind right now:
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Insist that the car is moved to an autobody shop of our choice. There is one near our house that we've worked with in the past, and another near our house which specializes in German cars and claims such as this. It makes me nervous that shop currently holding it is tightly related to the insurance company.
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Claim diminished value on the car. A repair this large it will show up on CarFax (and I wouldn't feel comfortable hiding from potential buyers anyway) and will lower the value of our car. I don't know how to calculate this. There appear to be services on the web which will do it for you, but none list their fees for doing so.
What would you do?
We really like this car, but we liked it in it's pre-major-surgery state. I don't want to screw the insurance company, but I do want a fair settlement.
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p.s. I'd use this as a reminder that I don't like cars too much, but riding a bike doesn't save me from insurance claims.